This is broken into two sections based on her last name, and additional sections with the Hocker name, but different locations. Please recognize that I do not have all the information I would like to have before she became Carol Hocker. Please be patient, writing captions to all these pictures is daunting.
Many thanks to Ron Monroe for filling in details of Carol when she was Carol Liddiard.
Carol Liddiard
I found your website last week, and wasn't sure it was the same Carol, except that was her in the high school picture, and me with Carol and Toody in the second picture.
It used to be a competition between Toody and me, as to who Carol would play with. Jeannie was 3 years older than us, and I think Toody was two years younger. It was no big deal back then for one of us to cross the street, and play unsupervised. Carol's grandmother lived upstairs, maybe she was watching from her window..
Carol and I were going to take swimming lessons together, I think when we were about 6, but I had a fear of putting my head underwater, and dropped out.
I lived across the street from carol, until I was 8, when my parents had to move.
Have you ever been to Rutland Vermont? We lived near the base of a hill that lead to Dana Elementary school, and had to walk at least a mile to get there and back. I had asthma and sometimes I would rely on my dad for a ride..
Carol and I would play tiddlywinks or pickup sticks, and go to the local store, like a 7-eleven, that was across the street. It was owned by neighbors, and they knew us pretty well. If we bought snacks, I would buy something sweet, and she would buy a box of pretzels, for a nickel.
Once in a while Jeanie would play with us, teaching new games or telling us ghost stories. Billie Hackett lived next door on the north side of Carol. He was probably one or two years younger than us, and sometimes would play with us as well. But, his older brother was a bully, all the way through high school.
Toody's real name was Gertrude, but, she didn't like her name, and couldn't pronounce her "r"s, so Trudy became Toody. I have also lost contact with her,. Maybe Carol left an address for her?
My mom or Hazel said that Carol was born very underweight. I don't think she was a "premie", but was very small. I wonder if that had an affect on her later years.
I forget where Charlie worked, but I remember he had a Jeep wagon, and later bought a Volkswagen van. That would have been around 1956 or 57..
When my family moved, we moved to North Main street, which, I guess was about 2 miles north. The Rutland swimming pool was about 1/2 a mile further north, and it wasn't unusual for Carol and maybe Toody, would drop by on the way home, and we would play badminton for a bit. The pool was above the ground with leaks. They tore it down about 5 years ago, and I never got a picture of it.
We didn't see a lot after that as I had some personal problems, but Hazel and my mom were friends and every once in a while, Hazel would visit, and brought Carol with her, and we would reminisce about the past. And, for a while, my mom would baby sit for Jean's kid, I think I was in college then.
Carol was always an A student. I think I remember her having a problem playing a violin at first because her eye couldn't focus the violin very well. Like the yearbook said, Carol was rather quiet, and I don't remember her joining up with things while in high school. She must have opened up after that.
Thanks for posting the photos, it looks like overall, she was happy. I am sorry to see is gone now.
Ron Monroe

Older sister Jean holding Carol. Feb. 1950.

Ronnie, Toodie and Carol

1967-Carol and Joan--year book

Carol with brother in law Al Houghtby

Carol with her Father Charles

Carol teaches a Special Ed Class
Carol Adams
Carol kept her last name, Adams, up until she became Carol Hocker. I do not know when she and Tom got divorced in the picture sequence below. Carol always liked Tom, even after they were divorced, and wanted to be Carol Adams Hocker, but I convinced her to be Carol Ann Hocker.

Carol marries Tom Adams

Dances with her father at the wedding

Carol at a nursing home

Student ID card

Carol is an OTR!

Carol with her sister Jean

Carol takes a trip to Ireland

Ireland was fun!

Carol with her mom and dad after his stoke

Carol paddles in front on a Connecticut River outing club trip Memorial day 1981


Carol learning clog dancing at Ashokan

Carol dancing at Ashokan

Carol at Hawk's Hill with cat Ebony

Carol, friend, Mitch at Hawk's Hill
Carol Hocker on Cape Cod
I cheated on the first picture, she was still Carol Adams, but was Ellen’s and my dance friend at Ashokan Fiddle and Dance Camp. Note the tent we were staying in got smashed by a tree limb falling across it. The limb was arched so we didn’t get killed.

Carol, Lon & Ellen survive tree fall

Carol and Lon with parents Lon and Esther

Carol and Lon get hitched

The wedding ceremony

Carol's clogging group







Carol Hocker moves to Hilo, Hawaii: Kaiulani Street
We found that we kept trying to make our house on Cape Cod be something like Hawaii. I suggested to Carol that we move to Hilo. She said that she wanted to see it first. We flew out on a perfect day and she said yes to the move as soon as we landed. We bought a house on Kaiulani Street, that was lovely, and tried out Hilo for six months, then went back to Cape Cod to clean things up for the final move. Two weeks before our return we found Carol had MS, and the Kaiulani Street was not viable.
Carol, Lon's daughter Lizzy and Michele
Carol, Lon's daughter Lizzy and Michelle
Carol plays at Malia Puka o ka lani
Carol Hocker at Hina Street, Hilo
We looked all over for a house appropriate for someone with MS: Air conditioned, one floor and with a pool for her to exercise in. We found the perfect place in out Hina Street House: no air conditioning, no pool and two floors. We loved the Hina Street house, and added a stair glide and a pool. It was on a hill, and caught the breezes wonderfully.

Adorable Carol
Carol with Kumu Lori Lei
Carol with George Naope
Hula Sisters
Party at Hina St

Lon and Carol at Kapunafest
Party at the farmhouse

Stringamajig at a contradance

Ruth's wedding

Carol at Merrie Monarch



Marisa and her mom with Carol



The Minihunis miniature group

Carol's folk dance group at Hina Street


Carol Hocker in Puueo to 2017
We had bought a lovely area several miles up Amauulu Road in Puueo, and decided to build a house up there. The higher altitude meant it was cooler, and the house we built was all on one floor. It’s a beautiful area, not far from downtown. This was the last stop on Carol’s journey.

Carol tries mowing


Monthly party at the farmhouse






Carol with cats and our house in the background

Sweet Potato packing


Carol with Doctor Henry Haire














Kona side Miniaturist


Carol and Lon go to Vegas!









Carol's painting at an art exhibit

Folk dance mob




Carol Hocker in Puueo after 2016
This is the final section. It covers Carol’s life until her final days.








Ultimate Miniatures Store

Carol at 50th high school reunion with Diane Larson
Carol's sister's family
The house Carol grew up in



Kumu Charlne's halau with santa
Carol's folk dance group at the warehouse

Kumu Charlene and Carp;


Fresh lava in the background

Sassy Carol


Carol releases a butterfly



Carol with her art teacher Jane Chao


Carol goes on a carnival ride



Folk dance during covid

Hair regrowing after chemo









The Mini Group

Folk Dancers

Carol and Dr. Henry Haire




Carol's breakfast for her 73rd birthday


Band Concert